Think of The Children
This goes without saying, and we’re sure you already pursuing the best interests of your children. While you’re going through the divorce, however, some parties tend to lose sight of the fact that they are caught in the middle of the dispute. Try not to involve them in the litigation, or disparage your spouse. Focus on the family, not the animosity you may have for your spouse. Keep your children’s needs at the top of your list of priorities.
Find a Therapist
Seeing a therapist is one of the best ways to approach emotional stress of any kind. Don’t be afraid to lean on a therapist to help you with the details of the divorce. They can’t offer legal advice, obviously, but they can offer an experienced ear to talk to and coping mechanisms that you otherwise wouldn’t have. They can show you how to relax in a healthy fashion, how to speak to your kids about what’s going on, and how to remain calm and collected through the divorce process.
Keep Your Finances in Order
When you’re litigating the case and negotiating for a settlement, try to maintain a secure financial condition. Avoid unnecessary debt. Consider whether you can afford to maintain the marital residence, or whether you should defer that responsibility to your spouse. Consider what assets you will need after the divorce, and which marital debts you will be responsible for after the case is over. Keep in mind that after the divorce you will have one source of income to satisfy your bills.